While I have gone through this and keep going through this on a regular basis, I am sure, most moms keep second guessing their own importance at home, mostly among their kids! We keep wondering if we are too strict or too lenient or too harsh or too soft or pampering the kids silly or if we are being a dictator. We also wonder, sometimes, that when we are strict, if the kids resent and hate us!
Yup, story of every mommy’s life.(Mostly of stay-at-home moms)The day progresses with more thoughts….
Weighing the pros and cons..
Finally accepting the choice which has been made and practising positive affirmations..
All the while lots and lots of thoughts bombard you, questioning you, depressing you, reminding you and finally you try to pull yourself up and you happen to hear a tiny bit of conversation……between your kids!
Acknowledgement and praise..
That is when you realise….
Perspective
You think you are a heroine and more, pump yourself up with immense confidence and one little compliment the kids shower on their dad deflates you! (He is mostly away, working)
That my dear friends is Mommy Blues and it comes in all sizes!
P.S:
1. I once caught GBee imparting gyaan to KBee about their hardworking dad! So I have cooked up this post for the blog, with a little masala. (Any thing can be an inspiration for a post.)This is also a shout out to Mr.Bee who works hard for us. We are proud of you Mr.Bee, although I envy you a little!! ( kids admiring you and all..)
2. This is my first post on my Samsung Tab and am happy about it. Watch out for more posts. I found one of my old diary with my cartoons and guess where they are going to show up?
P.P.S:
Behind the scenes….
Scene 5:
Scene 5: After the eavesdropping!
Scene 6:
QB attitude: Something happened, let me blog about it!
Till the next post, adios!